Intro to Decolonizing Non-Violent Communication Recorded Series
Recorded series of a 10- week course on the principles of Non-Violent Communication with a decolonial lens.
A workshop series on using the language of feelings and needs to decolonize communication, increase self-empathy, and embrace accountability and transformation without shame. Using a trauma-informed lens and the principles of Non-Violent Communication, this series will explore how we hold ourselves and others with empathy and compassion during times of conflict. During conflict, our bodies may go into a variety of triggered responses, impacting the quality of our communication, and setting off a reactive and disconnected pattern of communication during which no one’s needs get met.
Can we deepen our own somatic awareness of where our deepest triggers and pain live? Can we use this awareness to communicate our needs with increased clarity? What are the ways we can shift from shame-and-blame language, to choose processes for deepening connection and care?
Series content includes:
you are eager to be able to sense and understand the messages your body gives you about your feelings and needs
you're hungry to deepen your own emotional vocabulary, so that you can speak your needs into the world without anxiety or fear
you savor the idea of expanding your capacity for compassion and listening
feel isolated and without community for your own growth.
Tools to prepare for this course
Curriculum Outline
DNVC Framework Review: Self-Reflection
DNVC Framework Review: Expressing Appreciation
Intro to Family Constellation Therapy
Family Constellation Activity
Journaling Prompt: Truth Is a Journey
Collective Altar Invitation
Session 1 Recording
Session 1 Slides: Intro to Decolonizing Non-Violent Communication Part 1
Session 1 Integrative Resource: Somatic Reflection on Feelings and Needs
Session 1 Integrative Worksheet
Session 2 Slides: Somatic Empathy and Verbal Empathy
Session 2 Recording
Session 3 Slides: Understanding the Empathy Guess
Session 3 Recording
Session 4 Slides: 4 Ways of Listening
Session 4 Recording Speaker View
Session 4 Recording Gallery View
Session 5 Slides: Strategies versus Needs
Session 5 Recording Speaker View
Session 5 Recording Gallery View
Session 6 Slides: Intro to Decolonizing Non-Violent Communication Part 2
Session 6 Recording Speaker View
Session 6 Recording Gallery View
Week 7 Slides: Observations and Interpretations
Week 7 Recording Speaker View
Session 7 Gallery View
Session 8 Slides: Deepening Self-Compassion
Session 8 Recording Speaker View
Session 8 Recording Gallery View
Session 9 Slides: Enemy Image
Session 9 Recording Speaker View
Session 9 Recording Gallery View
Session 10: Harvest and Debrief
Session 10 Recording Speaker View
Session 10 Recording Gallery View
Closing Feedback Form and Celebrations
Session 9 Integrative Worksheet: Interrupting Enemy Image
Week 9 Altar Reflections